schedule for the past few days.....
Went to the bishan carnival on sat with the sphere elderly.Is was such a hot day,i was like running around helping the elderly buy the food and drinks..The elderly is a bit like kid..haha.. when they see another elderly have biscuit then one by one will ask for it..when they see other have ice cream then they also want..making the interacter running buying this and that..they leave around 12.30 then is our free time..i went around playing games,take photo...i asked jen ,wei and kat to wait for the lucky draw..haha...don't know why just want to wait which normally i won't..Guess what???My name was called during the lucky draw...i was shocked..in my mind i was thinking,there are people same name as me ar...only when jen they all looked at me and asked me to go up then i realised really is me...There are so many people in this world call Rachel Lim..didn't expect to be me..haha..i win a thumbdrive...haha..quite happy cause i always wabted a thumbdrive so that is easily to do my project.
Then the following day,sun,i was supposed to work but my mense came...mense cramp!!!!pain like hell...i couldn't get down the bed...if those who see me having cramp before will know how serious it is..i can cramp until faint..that's why i didn't go to work,i don't want to faint at my work place..and i also won't be able to stand and serve customers.That day i was like suffering..
The next day,mon,i have to attend a important meeting.When i wake up i was having a fever.But no choice have to go.In the meeting i was very quiet,i really don't have much strength to talk or anything.When walking around to see the venue of the event,i was walking the last..i'm like zombie on that day...i'm like so weak,don't know why but lucky within a day i recover...after the meeting i went and eat medicine and sleep when i wake up the fever is gone..
Now i'm at my work place..feel like very long didn't work..3 days off...now fully recover.....
Dear i'm so sorry of what i said that make you sad..i didn't mean it...i should now have understand it..although you told me that you are not angry but i still feel very bad..i will try to be a more understanding girlfriend...love you...^_^
Think about it.....
"Relationships are like banks,the more love and kindness you put,the more you will have to withdraw in times of adversity.If you are constantly depleting the bank by inconsiderate actions and verbal abuse,you will not have enough left to weather the emotional storms that can affect people working and living in a competitive and turbulent time."
"Relationship are two way street; What you will get and what you will give are equally important."
"The quality of talking is just as important as the quality of listening. If we are abusive and insensitive to the listener, we are taking advantage of him. Talking should be done with respect, sensitivity, conciseness and honesty."
"Partners who do not know how to express emotions create barriers which are painful and restraining. Positive emotions such as joy, love, hope and contentment can be useless if they do not find an outlet for expression. Often people don't know that they are loved or that they bring joy to others."
"In any relationship, whether it is professional or personal, someone has to give. If both taking, there is little opportunity to solve anything."
All these quotes is i get from a book "Emotional Intelligence".Find the book quite interesting..about how different kind of people having the wrong view of love.Some based on look because they want their children to be beautiful.They believe those who have better look have a better chance to promote.Love don't really exist in this kind of relationship.i only read half of it....if i find more interesting quote,i'll update again....
i'm burned....
Yesterday when swimming wif dear...we are celebrating our 7th month...it so tiring...dear teach me free style..keep asking me to swim..say must swim faster than him then can stop..how can it possible..i so long didn't swim..i normally swim frog style...we go around 12 plus..go home about 3 plus..i get burned...my nose my cheek and forehead is red and is so pain...i hate get burn...sobz..so ugly..just move a bit will be so painful..then after that,evening time we meet kat,cement n jen 4 dinner at marina south...dear want to eat steamboat...before going there i'm so hungry..then after that eeryone is so full until want to vomit liao..all the exercise dear and me do in the afternoon is gone..haha...but is fun la...dear yesterday keep bullying me...pity me...haha...he keep twisting my hand..so painful...never mind i know something that can stop his moves...haha.. dear very scare i go and learn...anyway his strength is so big even if i learn also stil can't beat him...dear i won't bear to wack you de even though u bear to wack me....hahaha.....
now feeling so dead and tired...natas coming..working on friday and saturday...sunday have to go back to crocs to work...thurs is my chalet!!!! Bombers chalet...kind of excited..haha..after chalet the next day straight away go natas work..at expo..meet dear and go together...jen,kat,ting and me woring on friday..wei working from sat on...only on sat 5 of us will be working together..i think it wil be fun!!!!but jas not working...haiz..if not whole bomber squad will be working...
stopping now....bye
Back from Cameron Highland.....
It have been quite long since my last update...i just came back to singapore 2 days ago...have fun at cameron highland with dear and his family...Cameron is very cold,i almost freeze up...everywhere i go have to put on kacket and gloves...even dear who always feels hot,feel cold when he get there...keep sneezing...haha...We went to Strawberry farm,pluck strawberry..we also went to their small towns,market..actually there's nothing much to shop,there only alot of vegetable and strawberry....STRAWBERRY STRAWBERRY STRAWBERRY!!!everywhere you will see people selling strawberry,strawberry farm..even the restaurant menu will have strawberry..strawberry juice,ice cream(can't imagine who will eat at such a cold temperature but we eat..haha...) etc..etc...Now i'm so scare of strawberry..the people sleep quite early...there's no night life there...even ther nightmarket is fron 6pm till 10pm...normal shop will start closing around 8 plus....9 plus no much shop id open...EXCEPT a place that dear like to go....kind of a internet cafe...it open from 9am till 5am what did he do there?PLAY DOTA...after dinner he will go there and play til midnight...and i think that's the only place that will make him sweat alot..after he finish playing the game,you can see him sweating alot...he said is too exciting...kind of miss singapore when i was there..the bombers...my pri sch frenz..sec sch frenz.. yesterday i met up with the bombers,very happy to see them again..have a nice dinner and happily chatting all the way...
Bombers seem to be flooding my mail..having hard time clearing my mail...but i receive a interesting mail from one of my best friend...is a story..i like one of the phrase inside...
Love is not to forget but to forgive, not to see but to understand, not to hear
but to listen, not to let go but to HOLD ON !!!!
Don't ever leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one
you like will leave you for the one they love.
Towards the end it say about what kind of guy you should find.....
Find a guy, who calls you beautiful instead of hot.
Who calls you back when you hang up on him.
Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead.
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.
Who holds your hand in front of his friends.
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he
cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.
Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's
her."
Tuesday, September 26, 2006