Think about it.....
"Relationships are like banks,the more love and kindness you put,the more you will have to withdraw in times of adversity.If you are constantly depleting the bank by inconsiderate actions and verbal abuse,you will not have enough left to weather the emotional storms that can affect people working and living in a competitive and turbulent time."
"Relationship are two way street; What you will get and what you will give are equally important."
"The quality of talking is just as important as the quality of listening. If we are abusive and insensitive to the listener, we are taking advantage of him. Talking should be done with respect, sensitivity, conciseness and honesty."
"Partners who do not know how to express emotions create barriers which are painful and restraining. Positive emotions such as joy, love, hope and contentment can be useless if they do not find an outlet for expression. Often people don't know that they are loved or that they bring joy to others."
"In any relationship, whether it is professional or personal, someone has to give. If both taking, there is little opportunity to solve anything."
All these quotes is i get from a book "Emotional Intelligence".Find the book quite interesting..about how different kind of people having the wrong view of love.Some based on look because they want their children to be beautiful.They believe those who have better look have a better chance to promote.Love don't really exist in this kind of relationship.i only read half of it....if i find more interesting quote,i'll update again....
Thursday, September 21, 2006